给一位朋友的话

上个星期回槟城的那趟
真的是太值得了,我并不后悔 Haha
可以预见多年未逢的Yang和Wenwei
听听他们在欧洲的经验
大家坐在一起聊天
仿佛回到Form Six 时期
(Yang:不要每次回来都住院, haha)
去了姓周桥,
一位朋友在那里的家可是“初恋红豆冰”的拍摄地点
在那里逗留了一阵子
还蛮凉的, Haha
还在古老的Georgetown走走,Photography Session tim..
可惜我没把相机带回来。。haih





给一位朋友的话:
知道你遇到的问题
比我们任何一个遇过的都来得困难
这段期间,那团阴影把你渐渐的推向了改变
我有看到一些好的改变
但也观察到了怀的一面
也许是你对未来的模糊
促使你的人生观有急促的改变
但是还是呼吁你,做回自己吧!
做回我认识的你~
很高兴在众多朋友当中,你会找我聊天
当你说“thanks for listening"
我觉得很满足,可以得到你把我看成是好朋友的印证
希望你可以快点找到以前的自己,别再让我们担心了
=)

这两个星期有好多考试。。。
自己第一次有时间准备,可是却不明白的科目 (其实时间也不够啦。。都是因为会槟城)sigh
Electromagnetism!!! I am coming to devour you!!!
祝有考试的朋友们,GOOD LUCK!!
NTU 就快开课了,haha
NTU 的朋友们,尽情享受在槟城余下的日子吧!不要Emo 了

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朋友

我个人对朋友的定义是
当我们谈得来
伤心时,可以互相支撑, 分担那份包袱
开心时,可以一起分享那份喜悦
John。C Maxwell 的书曾经提过
"True friends are the ones whom will celebrate with you when there's a success,
It's often to have friends consoling you in despair, but it is hard to find a friend who celebrate your successes truthfully"
hmm... 可以互相体谅对方, 接受对方的缺点
要得到一个朋友不难
要得到一个真心相对的好朋友有点难
但是,要保持一段长久的友情很难
(很庆幸,回想起来,自己的一生中,人脉还不错。。。真心相对的朋友相当多, 也保持了很久)
一段友情对我来说就是这样简单

and this quote!
i love the most and felt the truth behind it the most!


最近
一些莫名其妙的事故
一点点的细节,竟然迎来了一场洪涛汹涌的友情大考验
叫我束手无策
难道我们所经历的一切,就不能包容那一点点的小细节吗?
那将来遇到更大的困难,不就世界末日了?

我就觉得这这是一场拔河。。
当我拉得太过分,就让你的手磨伤,误会
当我放松时,就输了这场比赛,失去了朋友
手掌也是肉,手背也是肉啊... zzz

为什么我们的友情就不能比较简单和坦率的吗?
真搞不懂清你的想法

(I love BoSYs in ways we dealt with problems... It's the establishment of maturity and echo-ing thoughts that played the essential part in maintaining our relationship, nothing has really rip us apart... we're truly BFF !! :-P)

刚刚回到槟城。。。感觉好自在,很幸福
突然想写下最爱槟城的原因。。 haha
TOP 10 THINGS THAT MADE PENANG ATTRACTIVE!
NO. 1
NONE OTHER THAN... MY LOVING FAMILY~~

NO.2
MY GROUPS OF FANTASTIC AND TRULY.... CLASSY FRIENDS LOL!!!

NO.3
OF COURSE.... FOOD HEAVEN~~~~

NO.4
"MYBROADBAND" The broadband service rolled out by the Penang government to provide free wiFI at every corner of the island~ making good progress~ thanks Lim Guan Eng haha

NO.5
"NO PLASTIC DAY" Every Monday, Tuesday and Wednesday~ All outlets, hypermarkets and supermarkets are prohibited to use plastic in order to make Penang a greener place to live :-P~ wow... thanks Lim Guan Eng again haha

NO.6
"NO POLYSTYRENE" Polystyrene (the white foam-looked food container... aka 饭盒) is no longer legal to use in penang's food outlets to preserve the environment and to save human's life.

NO.7
钟灵 haha... the most happening school...

NO.8
Hokkien Mee / Curry Mee as breakfast!!

NO.9
Diversified and exquisite cuisines (Asam Laksa!) as lunch!!

NO.10
Seafood as dinner!!




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Pristine Indulgences





Botanical Garden

Malacca River

最近,开始沉迷于摄影
Post Processing 是一个相当耗时的事
Photoshop LightRoom 的魅力太迷人了~~
可以替每一张照片补上它缺乏的活力~
就如朋友说的:“Post processing is a must to compensate flaws in the composition of your pictures.. you will amazed by potential you can discover from every shot you made~" ^^ Thumbs up!
摄影并不是为了什么,而只是为了让自己沉醉于手指放在相机上,等待时刻的那瞬间

在马六甲
试过一个人拿着相机和Tripod逛夜街
试过拿着相机爬山,为了拍下美丽的日落(可惜,这里的日落。。。mediocre)
也试过一个人在BotanicalGarden“寻乐”(拍照)
觉得很自由,很没有约束
是让自己一个人独处的好借口 :-p
还很健康tim

前天Roommate向我说“你知道为什么整间家只有我们两个从来没有EMO的现象吗?”
“因为我们每天都有玩弄对方" =.=

其实想起来,
每当回到自己房间时,
都觉得很放松, 因为我们彼此没有什么秘密
都是坦诚相对的,没有什么心机
自然而然,每天都没什么EMO的机会 :p

晚上他还是我的PersonalDJ
每天都"This is the last song of the day~"
haha

睡觉前,我们都会关上灯然后用手机炸歌

(自己比较差,因为。。。太容易睡着了,haha昨晚关上灯,十秒钟就睡了,没有回应他)

Yu Yu's Homecoming~



Taken after hiking with housemates~ sunset!


p/s:今天在股票输钱了!!(模拟游戏里,是完全跟着Bursa Malaysia 的哦。。live update haha)

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The Quadrant


As reports, assignments, tests and quizzes started to surge their way into my life here, i found myself almost-fully occupied by them. Somehow, i manages to squeezed some valuable time out of the frame that i was set into to read the book "Guide to Investing" by.... Robert Kiyosaki again...

Today, I read the part of the first of the five phases that he was taught on how to get rich by his rich dad.....
The book introduces the cashflow quadrant, a conceptual tool that defines the cash generating path of ones can choose....
They are all about the mentality that ones possessed that ultimately paving his/her path into one of the quadrants..

Here're the quadrants:
E:
Employee — Working for someone else.
S:
Self employed— Where a person owns his own job and is his own boss.
B:
Business owner — Where a person owns a business to make money.
I:
Investor— Investing money in order to receive a larger payout in the future.

My "middle-class" dad has chosen the path Self-employed where profession and security plays an identical portion of play.
Me myself, i believe, if i did not read this book, i might just follow the path being an E, employee, which security comes first before comfortable and wealth.

There're three major options that one have to prioritize:
1) to be secure


2) to be comfortable

3) to be rich


Three of them are so different at the core inside it that defines ones' characteristics.
The author often used the 90/10 rule to define the path he has chosen.
well... there're both happy and unhappy moments when you're poor or rich...
but there's one thing that i am sure,
unhappier moments when you're poor are much more painful than those when you're rich..

I just wanted to jot down what i've read today that i felt quite interesting haha....

At last, believe in the world of abundances! the world of too much money!
A conceptual intersection with The Secret that i found after discussing bout that with Kelvin.. :-P


haha... too cute

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Cards Game Night





Just finished playing card game with my hsemates in my room~
A very enjoyable night to spare haha....

Well... the idea of blogging was clinging at my mind in recent days considering that i have left it dusty for daySS~


There might be the outbreak of conventionality to my obsolete (supposedly..i guess haha) mind..
I found out that i was wrong to put academic achievement at the perch of priority tree..
Academic achievement does not define how successful you live your life..
It's the diversity of skills, technical, mental and spiritual maturity that defines a person's life.
Hence, i hope to expose myself to a wider scale of knowledge..

I am reading a book about financial planning and investment.. The buddy chat back at Penang with ziming and kang was the trigger that makes me realized.... "It's about time to learn personal finance management! To start thinking of what to invest and how to manage them"

Somehow, there's another thing that i found in the inner side of me in recent weeks...
I found myself a better "pupil" in reading... it seems like i can reached an understanding and being able to comprehend in mind what i have studied or read..
Moreover.. i found out that the intensive drama session i have had in the previous break have put me on a huge leap to improve and polish my english~ hehe

Other than this, i am understudying some composing skills in the field of photo-taking and particularly getting my hands on post processing (Lightroom is fabulous!!) of photos taken~~

I always consider myself lucky to have abundance of true friends surrounding me all the time...

We strive and shed sorrows together at times of adversity
We celebrate to share the joy at times of victory

My housemates, particularly my roommate is very supportive and a great friend to have..
I have never felt any bit of dull living under the same roof with them...
The addition of three female coursemates have just made it a completed set of puzzle, a happy house to live in~ the proudest thing to have in Malacca is probably my housemates haha..

I can't believe that i am able to put this far although i was seriously lacking the tune to blog before i started this!

Here're some pictures that i found interesting recently:


My roommate's girlfriend posing for me to photograph via webcam via camera... LOL


The photo frame on my desk featuring my family's photo~

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New semester, a brand new inception

Finally the moment has arrived, i'm undertaking my third year here in UTeM..

Well... it's a brand new start with everybody here..

There nothing joyous except the BK of our course is now fixed at one of the few "lecture hall"...
Inverted comma symbolizes metaphor to the miniature size of my so called lecture hall.. haha...

Anyway, i would consider ourselves lucky to have this room as it resembles to attending lectures at a miniature cinema hall as illustrated below :
(nice and comfortable "cinema seats", the most important thing of all.... every table has a power socket~~ one is right at my usual seating spot~ :P)


Special thanks to my housemates particularly my roommie, Ivan for their superb understanding for doing the job in cleaning the house, of course my room too)
This is my new room~~

My reading corner~ ^^ (not finish filling up the cabinet yet)
gonna unwrap a new book to read after the one i'm reading now~~


My bed

Aircond that we bought!!

Ivan's table
My table~

It's the sweetest spot in Melaka now.... i'm lovin it!



A new semester signify a resurrection of myself, time to get up and fight~
After a long semester break that i really... spent in "hibernating" myself... it's hard for me to keep pace with people here...

I have done alot of reading during the semester break with the aim to be a better person.
There's a thing that i would like to talk about as it was part of the essence that i've readabout.

Dr. Fuller, an inventor mentioned bout this:
(the following words are based on my own understanding towards his words)
In life, there're two balance sheets that marks your personal benchmark of achievement...
first, financial statement
second, social statement

Both of the statements have to be balanced just like in accounting terms to have a successful life.
We can do no good to the world if we are producing obnoxico or fling (product that bring no benefits to the world)... It will only accounted to the credit side of social statement..
Hence, i hope myself could find my path to bring things that could benefit the world... to have a valid social statement in future during this semester..

Have just visited a nearest clinic to look at a brownish harden spot that popped out at my injured toe, the spot that worries me for a few days....
Luckily the doctor said that everything is fine and not to worry about it..


The new inception wasn't a good one indeed.. (the word "inception" was adopted from the latest movie in cinema now that i wanted to watch so badly... )

Finally,
A flop side of the semester has just showcased itself in this very beginning moment which brings no joy to me and anybody.....
Doesn't getting myself involve doesn't mean that i don't care..... I couldn't stand in the way you all think about this... but i have my reason... and it's a hard one to take after considering all the consequences and advises from different parties...
(I HATE TO BE A COMMUNICATOR THAT TAKES ALL THE BLAMES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!)
I really do appreciate the invitation and our relationship...
If this event will make you all think of it in this way after all we've been through, then there's nothing i can do about it but to admit that i've done not good enough in maintaining and reconciling our relationship.... sorry about it

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Wish

Gauze removed!

I just went to visit the friend who lost his dad not long ago.
From the chat, putting the way he talks previously in contrary to the way he is now. I can feel that he is a grown up now. A staunch adult.
This has again proven the fact that at adversity, people changed.
Emerge is the root of emergency. The emergence of tragic has caused him to make an emergency shift from the way he is taking the path. The path that has minimal obstructions is now filled with thorns.



Feel sad for him for all the misfortunes... But i was glad to have finally seen his charming smile when we were talking some jokes to clear the air.




It's good to see him standing out and outgrown anyone of us. Proud of who he is now. Keep it up dude!!



BTW
Since i can see an airplane everyday due to the whereabouts of my house.
This song revoke my thoughts now,

CAN WE PRETEND THAT THE AIRPLANE IN THE NIGHT SKY LIKE A SHOOTING STAR~
I COULD REALLY USE A WISH RIGHT NOW~



I just don't want to go back to Melaka..... Just don't wish to revamp the magnitude of my old woe.. sigh... to face the horrible mistake i made!

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